Funerals

I have now been to 3 in my life.  That is fortunate I know.  I'm not a big fan, I mean all the ones I have been to have been lovely with family and friends remembering the departed in thoughtful, memorable, genuine and heartfelt ways.  I just don't like the idea that one day it's going to be me everyone is (hopefully) saying nice things about and I won't be able to hear it.